Gossip Girl was never just a teen soap about rich kids in absurd headbands making terrible decisions on the Upper East Side. It was also a glittery little blueprint for influencer culture, public shaming, digital surveillance, aspirational wealth, and the deeply American habit of packaging cruelty as glamour.
In this episode of Bitchy History, I’m joined by Lindsay Denninger to talk about her book You Know You Love Me: How Gossip Girl Changed Pop Culture as We Know It, why female-centered pop culture is so often dismissed as unserious, and why that dismissal is complete nonsense. We get into the show’s feminism, its failures, its cultural afterlife, and the reason it still feels weirdly relevant in an era of curated identities, toxic men, and lives lived half for the camera.
Because popular media matters. “Trashy” media matters. The things girls and women are told not to take seriously usually turn out to be doing a whole lot of cultural work behind the scenes.
So yes, we’re talking about Gossip Girl. But we’re also talking about power, gender, performance, and the fact that this show walked so the modern internet could run headfirst into a wall.
XOXO
Buy: You Know You Love Me: How Gossip Girl Changed Pop Culture as We Know It
(Buy local if you can, but Amazon is fine if it’s all you have at home.)
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